The problem is God is not a man and to turn God into the father and son is demoting God and is bad for gender relations because God created both man and woman in the image of God. I see some who want to replace a father or a husband with this image of God as the father and son and I think it is very bad and making a mockery of God. In fact in the Five Books of Moses God is never considered the father except in one case in a poem at the end of Deutoronomy. In the Jewish prophets as well.
I just find it odd that with all the references to God as father the US is now in a culture where so many children don't have a father and yet many from single homes go to a church which they really do REPLACE GOD AND JESUS for their real father. And that is really bad.